Opening Minds, Peter Johnson, Chapters 1-3
One thing I’ve come to realize as I stare at my
blinking curser is that I’m not good at this blogging thing ... yet!
One of the most eye opening experiences is seeing
one of my first graders play teacher or read aloud to a friend and you hear
yourself in everything they say. That scenario has always been my reminder of
how important my words are in the classroom. Not to mention when I saw a child
put their hands on their hips, cock their head and say “REALLY!?” when they weren’t
pleased with a friend. It’s a powerful responsibility we have to create the environment
and community within the walls of our classroom. But as my last job taught me,
our reach must also extend outside of the classroom.
Much of the beginning of this book reminded me of conferences
with parents of former struggling students. As I met with them, I found myself prepping
them for what I was about to share. I front-loaded the conversation with the
skills that their child had acquired and the gains that had already made. And
then I began to coach them as I shared the things their child was currently
struggling with. I learned quickly that in order for my words in the classroom
to be of value, the feelings and meaning behind them had to be carried through
at home as well. I would be fighting and uphill battle if the language wasn’t consistent.
I wish this book had been out back then so I could share some of Johnson’s
words with my parents, especially when he shares “Learning takes time and
effort, so trying hard is valued.”
These first three chapters have gotten me excited
for the fourth chapter regarding feedback. It has been a goal of mine to
provided consistent and meaningful feedback to my students. And sometimes that can
be a struggle. Often, “Great job!” just flies out of your mouth and your brain
is onto the next thought before you realize you need to stop and return to that
child to provide real feedback, not just generic praise.
Looking forward to sharing more as I continue to
read. And maybe this next post will be on time! :)
Jacquelyn,
ReplyDeleteI am so glad you decided to join the event. I know it has been a busy summer and hope the move is going well. Thank you for sharing your reflection. I was struck by your point about parents. I think sharing some of Johnston's work with parents is a great idea. As a first grade teacher wouldn't it be wonderful if I could get them focused on a more dynamic learning frame for their children right from the start? The language we use with parents is something to be considered. (By the way, I think you know a lot about Blogging "already.")
Cathy
Jacquelyn,
ReplyDeleteYou are so right about words just flying right out of your mouth. I sometimes wish that I had a rewind button - especially with my own daughter. One of my goals for this year will be to take a breath before responding to anyone about anything so that I make better word choices. (I almost said "good word choices" here but I reread and fixed that. So there is hope.)
I agree, I notice even at home with my two year olds, I'm constantly saying "Good job!" I will slowly break that habit and offer more quality-process oriented feedback. I love your thinking about the language we use with parents as well. I just wrote down the quote: "Learning takes time and effort, so trying hard is valued." Powerful!
ReplyDeleteSo glad you jumped into the blogging and joining in on the conversations!
Hooray, friend! Thanks for joining in the conversation. I have to tell you, I smiled the entire time I was reading your post. You write with such a strong voice and share with such honesty! I've overheard some of my first graders use "Seriously?!" in the same context that yours repeated "Really?!" Whoops. I guess we all really do have room to grow, learn, and change.
ReplyDeleteYou really pushed my thinking by bringing the parent factor into the conversation. Now I'm really thinking about how I can provide them with constructive feedback for helping their first grader grow.
I'm proud of you for jumping in to blogging and #cyberPD! Looking forward to your future posts!
~Laura